This pregnancy has been a long time coming, as Jackson and I have been married for ten years. Our poor family and friends eventually stopped asking us if we were going to have a baby because our response was always, not yet, but we never said never. This year we were finally ready to make that leap into parenthood and we were very excited to start our journey! Jackson and I decided we wanted one more big vacation before baby, so I knew if I suggested an Ironman race with a desired destination, it would be a done deal. New Zealand was a bucket list destination and soon became a reality in March. Jackson won the Ironman there and we got to travel the beautiful country for three weeks after his Ironman; it was a trip of a lifetime! It was also there, driving around from town to town is where we decided after that vacation, we were ready to start trying for a baby. Well, God had a different plan because I had severe back pain after our return plane ride home; it was an on and off injury over the past year. After many: chiropractors, doctors, specialist, misdiagnoses and two MRI tests, it was confirmed I had ruptured my L5 disc and had a pinched nerve that caused sciatica down my left leg. Fast forward to July and my physical therapist told me that today would be my last appointment and I asked him about trying to get pregnant and he said yes, you should start trying because murphy law- it can take a while. He said I will probably have some back pain in my pregnancy, but I know the exercises and how to manage the pain. I remember getting into my car and calling my husband, so gitty and telling him the wonderful news.

At the end of July we had a wonderful opportunity to  house-sit in Tiburon, a small town close to San Francisco. We were thinking about moving to the Marin area, to raise our future child because of their fantastic schools and safe neighborhoods. Although we decided while living there that moving to Marin was not going to be in our near future because the commute was too far for my husband; we still loved our time there and created so many wonderful memories. While living there, one of our greatest memories was finding out we were pregnant. Here is how it went: Jackson and I ventured to the local CVS and couldn’t find the pregnancy tests, so we ended up asking an employee and he pointed us in the right direction. I will never forget him asking: “is that all” and in my mind I was thinking, IS THAT ALL?….UM…just a major life changer could be awaiting in that box. We bought an early detection pregnancy test, as we were celebrating my niece’s birthday that weekend and if I pass up Rose on a hot day, my family was sure to know I was pregnant. We did the test together and the it was negative; we weren’t that surprised because the test said the earlier you take the test, the less accurate it would be. We were going to wait to take the next test, in the next few days.

After the party, my parents came to visit us in Tiburon for a few days.  The morning they left, they woke me up at 6:30am, to say goodbye and so I could lock the door on their way out.  Jackson went to our house in the South Bay to beat the traffic and get a bike trainer ride in before work.  That day marked the first day of my cycle, so I couldn’t wait and took the test! Well, I only waited a minute and a faint pink line showed up on the test; I started to cry, jumped up and down with the dogs and I quickly hit Facetime with my husband. I told him the good news, with happy tears streaming down my face…we were both shocked, but excited with pure joy; we were going to be parents!!!! The whole day I couldn’t stop smiling and it was also the longest day waiting for my husband to get home!

He came in with a beautiful bouquet of pink and blue hydrangeas and a handwritten note. Lots of hugs and kisses and can you believe it, we are going to be parents were exchanged;  we were in a state of pure bliss but shock as well, it was a very surreal feeling. We went out to dinner with our friends and wanted desperately to burst out and tell them the exciting news, but it was the start of our biggest secret we had to keep. Well, I couldn’t exactly keep that secret in, I had to tell someone, so naturally we Facetimed my parents. They were both sitting on their couch and we talked for a bit and then told them we had some exciting news…I’m pregnant! My parents both started crying and were beyond thrilled for us. To say this day, August 9, 2017 has changed our life, would be an understatement; I’m balling crying as I write about that day we found out I was pregnant. Blessed is the word that comes to mind, to be able to be growing a miracle inside has been such a joyous experience. Our greatest adventure will be arriving in April 2018, so stay tuned for our pregnancy adventure. Thank you for all of the: love, support and prayers!

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Women’s Valentine’s Day Gift Guide

Love Is In the Air

A small gift on Valentine’s Day from their love is what every girl wants. I personally love: a small gift, a bouquet from Bloom That and a hand written note for Love Day (hint…hint…to my hubby)! I hope this gift guide helps a man or two on what to get their special valentine or a woman on what to ask for. Happy Shopping! XoXo

  1. Dior ‘Addict Lip Glow Balm a hydrating lip balm that brings out your natural lip color. I tried this balm at Nordstrom and was instantly in love!
  2. Love Potion Flask Fill this metal flask with your favorite drink and be prepared to fall in love!
  3. Kate Spade Heart Phone Case a perfect way to dress up your phone and get into the Valentine’s Day spirit.
  4. Voluspa Candle will be sure to dress up a bathroom or bedroom and let off a magnificent smell with the scent of Prosecco Rose.
  5. Fujifilm Instax Mini Instant Camera is the best gift for the girl who has everything & will be sure to make her smile!
  6. A Valentine’s Day Card or hand written note is always my favorite; this small gesture shows that you care and put in that extra effort.
  7. Love balloon will give any flowers or card an extra flare of Valentine’s Day love. I love supporting local shops and small businesses and this balloon is from Etsy, a great website to support small businesses.
  8. Whispering Angel Rose. Yes Way to Rose! This bottle of Rose it one of my favorites and would be a great addition to any Valentine’s Day themed basket or a bouquet of roses.
  9. Sugarfina sugar lips candies is a perfect gift for that sweet valentine of yours.





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Men’s Valentine’s Day Gift Guide

All In the Name Of Love

I love celebrating Valentine’s Day because any excuse to buy my husband something to show him I care, is a holiday worth celebrating. Click on any of the highlighted words below to check out the items in my Men’s Valentine’s Day Gift Guide. I hope you find something special to buy your man this Valentine’s Day. Happy February, may your month be filled with love and showing others love; our world needs it!

 1. Sugarfina hot lips candies for your man who is too hot to handle.

2. Heart Happy Socks, a way to make your feet happy and festive; these are seriously the best socks!

3. Everyman Jack body wash, it’s all natural and spells fantastic. You can also find this product at select stores listed on their website.

4. Bourbon flavored toothpicks that is a unique gift for a man who loves Bourbon.

Sugarfina hot lips candies for your man who is too hot to handle.

5. Mad Libs Adult Book, a fun book to fill out with your love and get in a good laugh

6. W&P Design Old-Fashioned Cocktail Kit for your man who loves an old fashion drink while up in the air.

7. Engraved Collar Stays are perfect for your man to add to his collar each day and think about you before he starts his busy day.

8. Heart Boxers will give your man a little love to wear without it being seen.

9. Coffee Mug that is manly and practical.

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NYE Celebration

When my husband and I tried to come up with NYE plans this year, we were stuck. We’ve done the big parties in San Francisco, went out in the craziness, traveled, hosted our own NYE parties & had late dinner reservations with friends at nice restaurants. As we looked back at past celebrations, the late dinners with friends had been our favorite memories. Then I had a brilliant idea to cook dinner at our very own home…not any old dinner, a seven course meal. That meant: no driving, no crowds and no up charges. My husband and I did this for our seventh wedding anniversary and it was a night to remember. We love to cook and just be together; I know gag…but we really just like hanging out!


I decorated our table in black, gold and glitter of course. I hung decor on the wall and put up sparkly banners; we set the table with our fine china and stemware from our wedding. Jackson and I created our seven course menu and made our grocery list. We had a gift card to Whole Foods, so that is where we bought all of our groceries; we never shop there for a full grocery list, so this was a real treat. All of the alcohol we had a home, so this dinner only costed us about one hundred dollars…bonus!

We dressed up, played some music in the background and began cooking our seven course meal. During each course we would take a card (found HERE, on Pintrest) and talked about our 2016 memories.


First Course

 Phyllo Wrapped Baked Brie

Second Course

Bodega Bay Oysters with Mignonette Sauce

Third Course

Cucumber Salad

Fourth Course

Butternut & Apple Souo


Lemon Raspberry Sorbet

Fifth Course

                                            Bacon Wrapped Scallops

Sixth Course   

Fillet Mignon with Roasted Mushrooms

Seventh Course

Creme Brûlée 

After Dinner

Sparklers & Champs                                                                                                                                                                  

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It was a perfect night as we cooked, talked about the future, shared our goals for 2017, danced and played with sparklers. 2017 we are ready for you, we can’t wait to see what the future holds. I think this is going to be a  great year! Happy New Year to you; I wish you a very HAPPY & HEALTHY 2017!

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Christmas Gifts

This Christmas was filled with family and fun. We got to spend quality time with loved ones and celebrate the reason for the season! This year my family decided to forgo our adult gift exchange and only buy gifts for the nieces and nephew. Also, Jackson & I decided no gifts and  planned special outings we had never done in the South Bay on Monday & Tuesday, after Christmas. It was one of the most enjoyable Christmas holidays! I’m just sad it’s over, it always goes by way too fast.

Day 1

On Monday we said goodbye to my parents, the last of our family to leave. Jackson and I started our special outings not too long after. We went to the new Starbucks Reserve Bar in Los Gatos, to get caffeinated for the day. The reserve brand is the best coffee     Starbucks has to offer. It’s a more relaxed vibe, while you can order from the coffee bar, enjoy your coffee, then the barista takes your payment. I got the butterscotch latte and it was velvety smooth.

From there we left to Woodside, CA and ventured on a new hike, Edgewood County Park. We parked right off the street and made our way to the marked path, to start our hiking adventure.


The paths were smooth and well marked. The views of the bay were beautiful, it was a cool, crisp, winter day. I love hiking and soaking in time with Jackson, to talk and exercise at the same time. We had fun talking about: 2016, our dreams and what we are looking forward to in 2017.

We were starting to get hungry, so we headed back to the car. To Yelp I went and found a lunch spot in Menlo Park. We went to Refuge, a gastropub with an amazing selection of beer & comfort food. We started with a Christmas beer flight, to share.

I ordered the barbocoa nachos and Jackson ordered the pastrami sandwich. Both were amazing, the pastrami melted in your mouth;  we will definitely be coming back!

We headed home to feed our dog and quickly became couch potatoes. Jackson & I are addicted to binge watching Suits…thanks to my sister. If you need a show, I highly recommend it! Stay tuned to day two, it started early.

Day 2

On Tuesday, we woke up before the sun had risen at 5:30, gathered our gloves & jackets and jumped in the car. BUT FIRST—COFFEE! You can always count on Starbucks to be open and after our coffee, the adventure could officially start.

The moon lit our path as we drove up the two lane, winding road, as we witnessed views of the bay with thousands of lights twinkling in the distance. As we trekked on, we passed many bare oak trees as the moon was disappearing in front of our eyes. We reached the top of of Mount Hamilton right before the sun was peaking from the mountain top.

It took us an hour to arrive to the top, where there is an observatory. We parked our car on the side of the road and got out to witness an awe struck beauty of God’s creation…the sun rising up from the mountain peak. The surroundings were incredibly peaceful, not a sound to be heard except the eagle passing by in the sky as it was hunting for the first critter to awake from the cold night. We braved the cold, taking our gloves off to snap some pictures and took in the romantic scenery as we kissed under the sun and ran back into the car to pump up the heater and start our day.

As we drove down we stopped to take a picture of the bay as the sunrise casted a beautiful sky scape. The mountains were rugged and vast, it’s crazy this surrounds our flat bay. The beauty wasn’t even captured in our amateur iPhone pictures, but we have stored those snap shots in our memories and it will be a morning I will never forget. The drive down was a lot faster and we passed all the live stock up for their breakfast and our dog loved barking at the cattle as we sped past.

We were very hungry, so we stopped at a new wellness cafe in Willow Glen called, The Source. We both ordered the tropical acai bowls, to go and enjoyed looking around at their shop. They offer a wide range of raw food, Chinese medicine, cold pressed juices and Verve coffee. The acai bowls were delicious and we will definitely be coming back!

After relaxing a bit we got ready and I dropped my husband off to swim at Stanford, as I ventured to the mall for the after Christmas sales. We met up for lunch at Fambrini’s Cafe; it was hard to find as it was not well marked, but a small sign at the bottom of the stair case. The cafe was at the top of the stairs; they must have had fifty different sandwich options and delicious sounding salads on the menu. Jackson ordered the Carlton chicken salad and I got an egg salad sandwich on their signature ciabotta bread. Both were great and a good find off the beaten path, away from the busy downtown of Palo Alto. *No pictures, we were too hungry!

From there we headed to Willow Glen to try a new ice-cream shop, Icicles. The line is always long, but we had nowhere to be, so we waited for 45 minutes until it was finally our turn. You pick your ice-cream flavor, we picked Nutella and Chill and they pour fresh milk on a cold plate, mix in your ingredients, chop them up into little bits and then they roll the ingredients flat on the cold plate and then roll them into icicles. Once they put the icicles into the cup, you can pick unlimited toppings. We went for: a toasted marshmallow, Oreo, toasted coconut and carmel drizzle. It was amazing, would I wait in that line again…maybe but you would need to go before the hanger dessert demon kicked in. The guy that worked there said the line at night can be up to a two hour wait, so best to come in the afternoon.

We were both dog tired from our early morning and called it an early night. I hope you can find time to venture to the best spot for a sunrise with your significant other or enjoy a day trying all new things in your city. Those two days, trumped any Christmas gift you could possibly give me. I hope you had a wonderful holiday season, until next year! XO

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What Matters Most

With all the opinions poring out last week that held so much negativity, I decided to not get down on life and focus on what matters the most to me. I first took a break from Facebook because I’m just not a political person, happy pictures on Instagram and funny faces on Snapchat are more my speed. I choose love at the end of the day, positivity and being the best person possible. The world is way bigger than myself but I have the power to change myself which can start with being the best wife, trickle down to my family, my friends, their friends, my community and so forth; being a good human being in this day in age is beyond critical. So this November I’m starting with myself to not only give my all to my husband, family, friends, but my community as well.

My husband and I have been traveling a lot lately, which has been really fun! When we got home last week reality struck hard and not only was my husband super busy at work, our home & personal to dos seemed to be overflowing with mundane tasks. I was feeling the hustle and bustle of this busy time of year, with holidays galore and my to do list growing. While driving on Tuesday I was letting the negativity win, letting my inner voice take over which in turn was stressing me out. At my next errand I pulled out some stickies I had in my car, wrote down what I was thankful for, changed my attitude and decided to let positivity take over. It was that simple, one minute changed my mindset; its it crazy how powerful our minds are!


That night I started making a list of fun things to do instead of dwelling on the not so fun things we have to do in our world of ‘adulting.’ One idea was making a game themed date night box for my husband. I bought a few games at Target, a puzzle from Costco, snacks at Whole Foods, our favorite wine & beer. I wrote a short poem, assembled the date night box and left it on the kitchen table. After a long week at work my husband had a fun surprise awaiting for him. Sometimes with the craziness of day to day life, you have to fit in time for fun. I encourage you to make a themed date night box or plan a fun date night for your significant other, it won’t disappoint!


I hope everyone chooses to better themselves and be the positive light our world needs. Start at home and work your way into your community. We can make a huge difference in this amazing country we live in! Love can conquer all!!

Stay tuned for more fun ideas on dating my husband and how I’m going to be giving back to my community. What are some fun date night ideas you have done?

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TriWife Life


This one goes out to all of you TRIwives out there; cheers to you and supporting your man! My husband has been doing triathlons for five years and there have been ups and downs with them. Triathlons are not easy on a triwife; we have had countless arguments and tears over the amount of: training, no checkins on long bike rides and the famous signing up for races without me knowing, but you’ve always wanted to go there…right?! NO, triathlons are not a vacation! Being a triathlete is very expensive, the training is endless and the amount of worry I endure on long bike rides and races are torture for me. My husband has crashed twice on his bike and let me tell you the road always wins. On the other hand we have met some amazing friends through the triathlon community. When you attend a triathlon race its amazing, the amount of motivation and support from: volunteers, spectators, family and friends, it makes you want to sign up for the next tri; it’s truly something I can’t describe. I am the most proud person when my husband crosses that finish line  because I know how much time, effort and energy he puts into his training and that alone is something to be awe struck over! Although triathlons are truly not my favorite thing because it takes my man away from me, it makes him happy so I choose to be supportive. It is not easy being a triwife, but let me give you a few of our secrets to what keeps me putting up with these tri things because as you can tell it’s a love hate relationship.


Calendar (planning for the week): When Jackson receives his workouts from his coach, he puts them on our monthly calendar white board. We also talk about our day before we go to bed and I try to remember to ask him what his workout plan is for the following day.

Tracking on the Phone: There is an app called: Find Friends on iPhones and you have to first add a friend, then they have to approve the request. This app allows you to see where your approved friends are. Jackson and I use this on his long rides, I can check this app and receive a piece of mind by seeing if he is still moving every 30 seconds. This has been a great tool we have started using this year.

Races, then vacation after: Leading up to a race is not a vacation, Jackson is very much preoccupied mentally about his race ahead. Before a race there are a lot of preparation for a triathlon: bike check in, setting your bags for transitions and lots of rest until the big race. We have learned to take some time after the race, if we can to fit in a vacation; Jackson is always down to party after finishing a race.


Has to be home for dinner: Jackson does a great job planning his day and fits in his training throughout his day, so he can be home by dinner. Eating dinner at the dinning table has always been important to us; we talk about our days and reconnect after not seeing each other all day.

Look at races and scheduling for the year: Jackson has become really great at looking at the races he wants to do and then looking at our calendar to see what races will fit into our year. He tries to pick new places and destinations we have never been; which has been really fun to visit and explore new places.

Try to train with him: I have recently sagged on his long runs, while riding my bike and carrying his water and nutrition. We have also swam and done yoga together.


Team Dovey: We both have amazing family members who travel with us; I have never attended an Ironman without family there. We feel so lucky because an Ironman is a long race and can be a bit nerve racking for me and our families have been there to eat breakfast after the swim, lunch after seeing him on the bike and help cheer on Jackson. Team Dovey is always out in full force and you can’t miss us with: signs, whistles, cowbells and whatever else it takes to cheer on our hard working Ironman. Jackson feels blessed to have so many of us cheering him on, throughout a grueling race; I love when we put a smile on his face!

Triwife Friends: I have been blessed to meet amazing triwives, through Jackson’s triathlon teams; we have hit the jackpot with our trifriends. It always helps to share a commonality with my fellow triwives because we are truly the only one who knows how much time and energy our boys put into training for a tri! I love all of you and thank you for your endless support and tri talks; I couldn’t do this without you!

Pray for a guarding angel over him…ALWAYS!

Biggest Cheerleader: Jackson is my everything, it’s my choice and a no brainer to be at every single one of his triathlon races. He supports me and I will always be his biggest cheerleader at his races and in life!


Congratulations to every triathlete out there, your endless hours of dedication and effort are so inspiring to so many. Best of luck in your races. Sending out the best of luck to all of the Kona World Championship racers for 2016; I can’t wait to see you out there and cheer you on. I guess that race isn’t a bad place to go and this year my husband and I are taking a REAL vacation to Kauai afterwards…he’s learning! Triwives, we are in this together. I’m holding my glass of champagne and making a cheers to each and everyone of you! Happy off season or soon to be! Xo #teamdovey


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Happy Anniversary

I met my husband, Jackson in college when we were both eighteen. We reported to college early for our sports, he played soccer and I played volleyball. We were friends for the first couple of months, but then one night we had our first kiss, okay there could have been some alcohol involved. We counted that kiss as our official start and never looked back. Over the course of our four years at Santa Clara University: we drank way too much, had the time of our lives, learned a lot about ourselves and each other and I quickly knew he would be my forever. Fast forward to the night before our graduation and Jackson proposed in front of our family and friends. A year later we got married in Newport Beach, CA and it was the best day of my life!


This past Thursday, July 21st marked our 9th wedding anniversary. Jackson and I decided to take the train to San Fransisco and adventure the bar scene. We took a bullet train which only takes a little over an hour to arrive in the city, so we had our beers in hand and loved the people watching.


We started at Rickhouse, a bar that has an old, rustic 1920s vibe, in the Financial District. It was packed and we were shocked, but then again we were in the city- it’s always happening. We decided to only stay for one drink, which were delicious and ventured to our next destination.


We hopped in an Uber and went to Urban Putt, an indoor miniature golf course. The wait for golf was 40 minutes, which was fine because we were starving and their menu looked awesome.


We headed upstairs and ordered two Moscow Mules and started with the grilled nectarine appetizer, delicious. For the main dishes we ordered: a burger with fries, grilled cheese and mexican street corn; everything was amazing. The corn was super spicy, so Jackson tried to eat it all at once and the waitress came by in the midst of him pounding the corn and she said, “wow, he really likes corn!” We died laughing because he had it all over his face; thank goodness we weren’t on our first date! After dinner, Jackson pulled papers from his pocket and told me he had documented all of our memories from the past year; I was deeply touched and loved reading through so many adventures and memories we had made in just one short year.


We headed downstairs and started playing through the miniature golf course, the holes were all very different and creative. Jackson and I enjoyed the course and had many laughs along the way with our ridiculous shots, some shooting right back at us. When we finished we tallied up the score and….it was a tie! By this time it was almost 11pm, so we had to call it a night. There were a few more bars we didn’t make it to, but we will definitely be back.


Happy 9th anniversary Jackson, it was a night to remember! Xo


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